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Wednesday, August 27, 2014

AAH or better known as...

A year or two ago, I dropped Bree, Jake and Jim off at a park to play while I went to work for two hours.  In true child nature, someone had to go to the bathroom after being there for 15 minutes.  Since I had the care at work, Jim did the only thing he could.  He walked to the nearest family members house (thank goodness we happen to have a lot of family).  By that point in time and with the fact that they were already almost halfway home, Jim made the decision to just finish walking the rest of the way home.  Along the way Bree kept noticing trash and pop cans and wanted to pick them up.  

Its an event that has always stuck in her head and is the seed that will help her grow into a better person.

(Earth Day report at school)

But then I got to thinking....  

If my daughter wants to make a difference and there just happens to be a program out there that supports it, shouldn't I be involved as well?  



Back in May I submitted my application to 'Adopt A Highway', met with the regional coordinator to pick the highway, and filled out the name plaque that will proudly mark the piece of Earth we promise to keep beautiful.  

And now its official.

The Dominique and Beaty Family are the caretakers of State Route 109 between mile markers 3.3 to 5.4
  
I know what you might be thinking:

Tell me more about this adopt a highway program.  What is involved?  How much time does it take?

I'm so glad you asked.

1. Adopt a Highway program is a two year commitment.

2.  Your commitment is to clean your two mile section of road three times a year.  
Yes just three times, at any time during the year.

Thats it.

On Sunday, August 24th, The Dominique and Beaty Family headed out to do their duties.


It took ten people 2 hours and 20 minutes to complete our two mile stretch.



We filled 28 trash bags. 


We filled 4 bags with beer aluminum cans.



Yep, even Jacob tagged along and pulled his weight.... well kind of.  Somebody might have been pulling it for him in a wagon. 




We found a boat oar, life preserver, beach ball, multiple car parts, and....


...a toad.



The unique silver lining to walking around staring at the ground? 

You notice things you may not have seen otherwise.  Like a beautiful pink rose...



Or a cemetery you have driven by hundreds and hundreds of times but never knew existed.  


So until next time, help keep Ohio's roadways beautiful - Please don't litter. 

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

THE Big Day

The big day.

Holly's heart procedures to fix her PDA and Pulmonary Valve Stenosis.

Monday, August 25th - 6am

St. V's - Toledo Ohio


Our day started at 4:15am!


At first its not too bad being up that early.  But a few hours later it hits you.  Hard.  Just ask Holly.


It was torture getting blood pressure, O2 stats, put into a hospital gown...  So traumatizing.  But then...


The happy juice came and she no longer cared about a thing.  






They took her from us and began their work around 7:30am.  We were updated along the way by the nurse.  It was all smooth sailing and by 10:45am, the nurse came out and said the doctor was just finishing up.  When he called us back for the consult, he showed us a video of his work with the balloon to open the valve and the placement of the plug in the hole.  It was all so fascinating to watch.  In a weird way I wish we could have gotten a copy of it.  At that point in time he explained it would be another 45 minutes before she got moved to the PICU but we could head up there to wait.

And that we did.

For one hour.

Jim went back to remind them we were in the waiting room waiting to see Holly but we were told she was not awake yet.  "Go have a seat and we'll come get you when she's ready."

So we waited.

For another hour.

This time I went back and was told a different story.  Holly had to lay flat until 4pm!  It was only 1pm - another three full hours to wait to see our daughter.

So we went and had lunch, played around on Pinterest, watched Frozen, started playing some cards when... they finally said she was ready to be seen!!!   

OH HAPPY DAY!!

That is until we saw her....


She had just gotten another EKG and diaper change when we got to her room and she was not a happy camper.  Her throat was so sore from the breathing tube.


She was still so groggy...


And not happy about all the excess baggage on her body.  


Before we could leave she still needed a few more tests done to be sure everything was still where the surgeon left it - another Xray and Echo.


And then it was time to E-A-T!  The first time in almost 24 hours.  She was quite the piggy eating yogurt and pancakes... until the doctor walked back in the room.


He had reviewed the tests and was happy with the results.  She was able to eat and drink and keep them down so we were good to go home - a mere 12 hours after arriving there and only 7 hours after the procedure was done!


All that's left to do is follow up with him in two months and the cardiologist in six months and in the meantime, keep her from jumping off couches and trampolines.  

Should be easy, right?

The most interesting part of the day is hearing both the doctor AND the nurse say that they have received phone calls from parents asking them to UN-do the procedure.  See until now Holly was getting too much non-oxygenated blood in her lungs.  Now after the plug was put in, she'll be getting the full amount of oxygen in her body and therefore will have the energy she never knew was missing!  So excited about the adventures and mischief this child will now be getting into.  Only time will tell.

And what would you do in a hospital for 12 hours while your child is in surgery?

Well... I almost completed a scarf for the Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes!




Monday, August 25, 2014

Friday, August 22, 2014

That's my girl

A girl after my own heart:
falling asleep reading a Christmas book!


And speaking of hearts, Holly goes in for her heart procedures to fix her PDA and pulmonary valve stenosis.  You can read all about it here. 



Thursday, August 21, 2014

Another First Day

First Day of FIRST Grade
2014-2015

Traditional pose by 'Papa up in heaven's tree.



"You can't be in the backyard without going on the trampoline!" says Holly


We went back inside where Bree, excuse me, its Gabrielle this year, finished adorning her hair with multiple clips and headbands.  I tried to get a picture of her all gussied up but she had a bit of a problem keeping her eyes open.




She kept them open this time.  But... well...  yeah....


I give up.


Its the best I got.


Then I tried taking Holly's picture...  Maybe its a family thing.  




Anyways....

At school.  So grown up!


Time to leave. 

No tears from anyone.

Its gonna be a good day and a good year.


Monday, August 4, 2014

That could work....

Bree accidentally bought 'hot fries' instead of 'cheddar fries' at the store. 

So what do you do to make them edible?

Put them in front of the fan to 'cool' them off.


Monday, July 21, 2014

A Murmur, An Echo, A Waiting Game

For those of you I have talked directly to, for those of you who follow me on facebook, and for those of you who just don't know, here is an update on Holly... from the beginning.

The day after Holly was born the doctor was doing her usual check up - ensuring that everything was in tip top shape to send her home with us.  While listening to her heart, the doctor heard a murmur.  She told us this is quite common, that many babies have this murmur and that it usually clears itself up.  To be on the safe side, the doctor asked us to stay another night.  We did.  Upon a second evaluation the next day, the murmur was still heard and, again, to be on the safe side we were sent to St. V's to have an echo-cardiogram performed.  So we packed up our hospital room, drove an hour to our appointment, sat there for two hours while over 200 pictures of Holly's heart were taken.  Then finally we were on our way to home a family of five.

A few hours later the cardiologist called.

Holly had a PDA, patent ductus arteriosus.  Basically it is a hole in the heart that helps with blood circulation before babies are born.  Every baby that is born has this hole.  In most cases, it closes a few minutes after birth.  Sometimes a few hours.  Occassionally a few days or weeks or even months.  By the time the cardiologist called he was certain that the hole had all but closed and was not a concern.  However the echo picked up something else.  Holly also has a condition called Pulmonary Valve Stenosis - a narrowing of the pulmonary valve which means the heart has to work harder at pumping blood to the pulmonary artery (which takes blood to the lungs). 

On a scale of 0 (meaning there is no problem) to 70 (requires immediate surgery to fix the narrowed valve), Holly was a 35.  The cardiologist explained that she was in no immediate danger and that this condition has three scenarios.  1. It gets better.  2. It stays the same.  3. It gets worse.

So what do we need to do for Holly?

Wait.  Wait three months, repeat the echo and go from there.

So three months later we head back down to St. V's and repeated the echo.

Once again he called back that very day to let us know that the stenosis has not changed and that we will need to wait another three months and have the echo repeated again.  However the echo reveled that the PDA, the hole, had not closed yet.  Still common but now will be on the doctors watch list.

Another three months later we make the drive to the hospital and repeat the echo.

This time there was a change when the cardiologist called.  As far as numbers go, Holly was still at the 35 midline stage however the valve has begun to thicken.  He wasn't entirely sure why, it is something we'd have to wait and see what is going on at the next echo.  And we learned that the PDA still had not closed.  Still semi-common but again we'd have to wait and see what the next echo has to say.  But a decision to do something would have to be made if it doesn't close soon.

So we waited another 5 months and repeated the echo... again.


This time when the echo was performed Holly needed to be sedated.  She was getting too big, moving to much, didn't have enough patience while the 30 minute procedure was performed.  And WOW.  I can tell you that putting medicine up a child's nose is NOT an easy task.  She fought with every last ounce of energy she had.


As expected, the cardiologist called us that night.  Problem one.  The PDA was still open.  At this point in time, this hole needs to be closed.  It is not a life threatening hole but with the extra blood flow from this hole she will tire more easily as essentially her lungs would have too much blood in them.  He explained that a coil would be place in the hole to help pull it shut.  Its a simple out patient surgery.  No worries.
  


Problem two.  The valve, which had begun to thicken before, was thickening even more.  This potentially could be from the extra work it does due to the extra blood flow from the PDA.  The only way to know the cause of the problem is to first fix the PDA.  Again he explained that it is not life threatening but that we should get this done ASAP.  As in May or June.  However, the first consult day the surgeon had was July 16th.  We'd just have to wait it out.


Finally the big day came -the meeting with the surgeon.  Even through Holly's blood curdling screams the surgeon was able to hear the murmur which was so pronounced he said it sounded like a washing machine in her chest.  A simple coil fix would not be an option.  He showed us a picture of a plug (to me it looked like a sewing machine bobbin) that he would place in the hole and hold it there until enough blood had flowed through a mesh part in the middle that would then being to clot and hold the plug in place and he can let go.  At that point in time he will evaluate the pulmonary valve.  If he feels that the thickening was caused by too much blood flow, he will then take a balloon into the valve and blow it up to stretch the valve to a more normal size and our days of echos and cardiologists will be over.  If he feels there is another underlying issue for the narrowing of the valve, then he'll leave it alone and we'll continue our wait and see game.     


Now what do we have to do?  Well... we have to wait.  I called to schedule the surgery that same day but they did not have the anesthesia's schedule.  I gave them the dates that did not work for us for August and September and now the ball is in their court.  I sit and wait for them to call me back.  


But its a good thing we have all this waiting time on our hands.  It gives us a chance to file financial paperwork, apply for the many help options out there and wait to hear back.    


Until then, life continues as normal.