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Saturday, January 6, 2018

Additional Traditions

During the 2016 Christmas season, the kids and I worked daily on making beaded icicle ornaments.  These beaded beauties were then delivered to our local hospital where the cafeteria workers would distribute them to the residents via their meals trays on Christmas Day.   



This isn't the first time we've done something like this. 

Back in 2011, Bree and I (and a very tiny Jacob) made 2x4 turkeys for the patients at Rainbow Oncology.

 
And in 2012, we made and delivered Valentine oven towels:
 
 
and floral Easter Eggs to Rainbow Oncology as well.  
 
 
Thanks to Pinterest and its plethora of ideas, finding generous ways to give back is very easy.  And thanks to the crafty talent that flows through my veins, I am always eager and willing to do so.  And even greater thanks to the Lord above for the ability to stay at home and have the time and finances to make these donations come to life has truly been a blessing.  Especially when teary-eyed nurses pay compliments like:
 
"Thank you.  The patients really appreciate things you've dropped off.  It means a lot to them that you take the time to do this."
 
It fills your cup, it fuels your fire, it drives you to want to do more.  However, little did I know we were missing a big piece of the puzzle. 
 
At the beginning of this Christmas season, as everyone was busy thinking up and searching for items to put on their lists, I was presented with a Christmas request per my father-in-law.  Instead of a physical gift for himself, he wanted us to use that money to go out and brighten and bless someone else's day, someone who needed that ray of hope more than himself.  
 
Well, that part was easy.  The kids and I had worked together to make over 120 beaded candy canes that we were going to drop off and donate as we had in the past. 
 
 
But this was a Christmas request... a Christmas gift per say.  Simply dropping off a donation would not suffice.  Just as we can't wait to see the pure joy, excitement, and thankfulness on a loved ones face when presented with a handmade gift so should this be an opportunity to truly give of ourselves, to sacrifice our time, to bring joy not just with a present, but with our presences.  
 
Our presences. 
 
That's what we have been missing in all our years of donating.  With simple, small changes in traditions, the holidays can be filled with the glory of God in unimaginable, soul filling ways. 
 
So on Christmas morning, we loaded into the van and headed to Brookview Healthcare Center to hand deliver 78 beaded candy canes to the residents as well as 15 candy canes and lottery tickets to the dedicated nurses and staff.



 
Jacob (in true boy fashion) delivering a candy cane:
 
 
Gabrielle delivering a candy cane:
 
 
A few days later, after it was all said and done and sunken into our brains and hearts, I sat down with the kids to talk to them about their experience:
 
 
Merry Christmas, Dad Dominique. We hope you enjoyed your present and may it inspire you carry on the Spirit with your presence throughout 2018.

Sunday, December 31, 2017

Ode to 2017

Wrestling Tournaments. Once a Month Gifts.  Monster Jam.  Windsor. 166 boxes of Girl Scout Cookies sold.  JBO's. Disney on Ice.  Beauty and the Beast.  Marvin's Marvelous Mechanical Museum.  #GiraffeeWatch.  The Henry Ford.  Ideal Hot Dog Birthday.  Nickelworld.  Outback Game Night.  Detroit Experience Factory.  D & S Deconstruction and Rebuild.  Virtual 5K - 40:32.  6 mile Bike-a-thon.  Grandpa/Father/Son Tigers Game. Shrektacular Day Camp.  Garage Sales.  Conquering Childhood Cancer Color Run.  Mothers Day Flowers.  Sauder's Camping.  Mongo Family Canoeing.  Free Summer Movies.  Relay for Life.  Harrison Lake.  Drive-In.  More Garage Sales.  Cheboygan, Michigan.  4th of July at Marble Lake.  July Community Dinner.  Holly ER Visit with Stitches.  Zip Line Towers.  Dayton Day Trip.  Hocking Hills.   New Preschool.  Official Soccer Mom/Dad.  First Demo Derby.  Apple Cider Slushies.  Detroit Tigers - Homerun Bunt - Game.  Soccer Star.  Volleyball Player.  Harrison Lake Halloween Weekend.  October Community Meal.  Jake Swims Under Water.  Grinch Musical.  Thanksgiving 5K.  Back to Wrestling. Ornament Exchange Flue Fire.  Community Christmas Lunch Prep - 4th year.  Nursing Home Candy Cane Distribution. Delta Wrestling Tournament.  New Years Eve Game Night.

2,017 in 2017

Last December 31st, I set a goal for myself to run 2,017 miles in 2017.  I knew in all reality that I was not going to obtain that goal, but I was curious to see how many exercise miles I would complete.  The year is over, the tracking is done, the results are in.
 
In 2017, I completed:
 
358.72 miles* 
 
That is 17% of 2,017.
 

I cannot say whether that is good or bad because I've never tracked how much I exercise for an entire year.  But that's the awesome part about starting a challenge like this.  The longer you do it, the more growth you see in yourself.  Here's to a New Year starting tomorrow and accepting the 2,018 miles in 2018 challenge! 
 
Are you in?
 
My year in miles:


January - 52.25
February - 46
March - 53
April - 52.75
May - 33.5
June - 27.5
July - 10.25
August - 41
September - 15.5
October - 7.5
November 16.5
December - 3
 
*Random strolls, biking through the neighborhood, even the walking around campground miles did not count towards my goal.  Only set aside, taking care of me exercise miles were logged. 

Saturday, December 30, 2017

2017 Book List

When I worked at the public library, one of my favorite things to see was elderly people bringing in notebooks filled line after line with every title of book they've read.  And while I idolize these elderly people, I will not keep a notebook full of titles of books... Simply because my children will write in it and ruin it all.  So instead I will keep a running list in my email draft section and post it at the end of the year.  And as long as the internet never crashes, I will have my list as the years go by.

In 2017 I read:
 1. Present Over Perfect
2. Total Money Makeover
3. Detroit Disassembled
4. Forgotten Landmarks of Detroit
5. Abandoned Planet
6. The Hardest Peace
7. Looking for Lovely
8. Antelope in the Living Room
9. Sparkly Green Earrings
10. I want my Epidural Back
11. This Life I Live
12. Everything, Everything
13. And It Was Beautiful
14. Home by Harlan Coben
15. Rise: How a house built a family
16. And Still She Laughs
17. Sasquatch Escape (Read Aloud with Jacob)
18. The Shepherd, the Angel, and Walter the Christmas Miracle Dog
19. Unofficial Guide to Walt Disney World with Kids 2017
20.  Lonely Lake Monster (Read Aloud with Jacob)
21. What were the Salem Witch Trials? (Read Aloud with Bree)
22.  Rain Dragon Rescue (Read Aloud with Jacob)
23. Love Unending 
24. Captain Underpants #1 (Read Aloud with Jacob)
25. A Child Called It
26. The Lost Boy
27. Captain Underpants #2 (Read Aloud with Jacob)
28. The More of Less 
29. The Christmas Box
30. The Magnolia Story
31. Pioneer Woman Come and Get It
32. Mr. Dickens and His Carol - currently reading
33. Life in a Jar - currently reading

Friday, December 29, 2017

Whats in a word?

A few years ago, I read the book "My One Word" and quickly jumped on the 'one word' resolution bandwagon.  And just as the book describes, God worked and wove His way through my life and morphed my word into something more than I could have imagined.  For example:

In 2015, my word for the year was:

 
The intentions behind my word was to finish off the multitude of projects in my plate that was half done and to get the other multitude of projects off the back-burner and brought to life.  While some of that did happen, 'Accomplished' became so much more.  That year I had the highest program attendance in the history of the library.  Ever.  I spoke at a district wide conference to help bring awareness of awesome resources available in our community.  I, along with help from various people, completed 10 sessions with a personal trainer, got involved with the Wauseon Community Dinner, converted our bedroom closet to a craft space, and went on our first ever vacation alone with Jim since kids were born.  It was a very accomplished year - beyond what I ever could have imagined.
 
In 2016, my word for the year was:
 
 
My intentions may have been a bit morbid.  I have a firm grasp in the Biblical truth that my days on this Earth are numbered.  While I can hope that I will live a long life with plenty of time to impart my wise to my children, the fact remains that even tomorrow is not guaranteed.  So my goal with 'legacy' was to focus on what I want to leave behind.  A recipe book full of my favorite recipes, handwritten, complete with tips and changes I made.  Photo albums all up to date.  But once again, God had other intentions for my word.  By December 31st, 2016, against all prior notions of what I thought was in store for my life, of what I thought my children would remember of their childhood, I became a full time, stay at home mom. 
 
I did not choose a word for 2017 but I'm back on my game for 2018 with:
 
 
 
 
I have some pretty hardy goals set for 2018 not to mention a 2019 Disney trip that we have not started saving for.  It is going to take a whole lotta Grit to get to the finish line.  But with God I can get there and exponentially further!

 
 
 

Monday, December 25, 2017

Christmas Simplified

 
The Homemade Gifts from Mom
 
 
The Dream's Come True Gift
 
 
The Wishes Come True Too Gift
 
 
 
Santa's Gifts
 
 
Merry Christmas!
 

Saturday, December 23, 2017

Dollar Stockings

As we all know, Christmas is a busy time of year.
 
Houses need decorating.  Cookies need baking.  Presents need wrapping.  And all on top of the hub-bub of normal life. 
 
Mistakes are bound to happen.
 
Like last year when we forgot to buy stocking items for the children and didn't realize it until nearly Christmas.... 
 
Oops.
 
But that little mistake turned into the newest and bestest tradition to date.   
 


(photo from 2016)
 
Just days before Christmas, we loaded the kids up into the car, headed to the local Dollar Tree, and handed each child an envelope containing $15.  It was explained that they each had enough money (including tax) to buy their siblings and parents 3 items each for the stockings.  They were free to browse the store on their own and choose items by themselves, using their knowledge of each other.
 
 
  It was a blast sneaking around the store, hiding the items in your basket when passing each other, running out of the isles so no one was the wiser of what you picked, or subtly dropping items near each other as hints. 
 
It became an instant tradition, loved by all.

Thursday, November 23, 2017

A Traditional Tale

First there was the year we skipped the traditional Thanksgiving turkey and had hobo stew instead.
 
2015
 
 
 
 
And then there was the year I said:
"Hey! Wanna do a 5K Thanksgiving morning?!"
 
2017
 


 
 
The joy of the holidays aren't really in the food.  Its the togetherness and the memories and the stories you tell.  So if "home is where the heart is", then traditions can be wherever we are together - even if that means pounding the pavement in 28 degree weather on a holiday morning.
 
Happy Thanksgiving!

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Saturday, November 18, 2017

Surprise Birthday

 
Someone turned 10 today. 
 
T-E-N!! 
 
Double digits!! 
 
 
She got fancied up with a new dress and shoes and was pampered with a hairstyling.  We had something big in store to celebrate her but we weren't spilling the beans to her just yet.  By default of Bree's friends and cousins being busy with the holiday weekend, Jake got to tag along and had to get gussied up too.
 


 
After a very wet 2 hour drive up to Detroit, we arrived at Fox Theatre for the Broadway production of 'How the Grinch Stole Christmas Musical'

 
 
 
Bree received so many compliments on her dress and hair from other people attending the musical.  Needless to say, she felt very special on her big day.
 
Then it was time to come back home for games, dinner, and cookie cake!
 
I just love Bree's expression in this picture.

 
She hadn't seen her cookies cakes until that point.  At which she discovered that I had them put every variation of her name that friends, family, and teachers call her.  However, the 'Gab' part was supposed to be 'Gabi'. 
 
 
 
 
Happy Birthday my strong-willed, natural born leader, book worm, adventurous souled daughter. 

Wednesday, November 1, 2017

The First

I got my first Christmas card today!!
 
 
 
 
Actually, I got it last night... at Halloween. 
 
But I wasn't allowed to open it until Halloween festivities were over. 
 
You know... 
 
When Christmas officially starts. 

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Halloween 2017

 Trick or Treating with JoJo Siwa, Iron Man, and Punzel (normally known as Rapunzel) at Marble Lake.
 
 
Trick or Treating again with Jojo Siwa, Spiderman, and Punzel at Harrison Lake.

 
Meeting my lifelong hero - okay maybe hero isn't the word I'm searching for.
 
 
 
Pumpkin Festivities


 
I cut the backside of the pumpkin off, not the top.  Living on the edge over here.
 


 
Jacob and Momma's pumpkin.


Bree's owl pumpkin.
 
 
Holly's kitty pumpkin.


And Dad's too tired from carving everyone else's pumpkin.
 
 
A family of pumpkins.
 
 
Our newest Halloween decoration that everyone had a hand in making.